Pain can feel like protection. If I hold it tight, no one can tell me to move on. No one can rush me. No one can take what's left. I'm guessing I'm not the only one who has held pain this way. Close to the chest. Quiet. Guarded. Some days it feels like the last piece...
Grief, Yet Held: Hope in the Middle of Loss | A Conversation with Cheri Fletcher on The Overshare with Rachael Elmore
A Conversation on The Overshare with Rachael Elmore Sometimes God brings people back across our path in the most unexpected ways. A while back, Rachael Elmore joined me as a guest on my podcast, and I remember thinking how refreshing it was to have such an honest...
The First New Year After Loss: Leaving the Year That Still Held Them
Milestones and holidays are always especially hard for those who have lost a loved one—especially a child. But if I’m honest, the hardest milestone for me to cross was the first New Year. This reflection was sparked by a recent conversation with a newly bereaved...
Grief Awareness Day: Why Small Gestures Mean So Much
My husband had an appointment with a doctor recently, and the topic of losing our daughter came up. The doctor shared that he had lost his brother when he was younger. They swapped a few stories about our daughter and his brother, and then the doctor said something to...
Today, Our Middle Son Turns the Age His Sister Never Got to Pass
Today, our middle son, Charlie, turns the same age his sister Annie was when she passed away. In reading about sibling grief, I’ve come across a common theme—one of the hardest milestones for a younger sibling is reaching the age their older sibling never passed....
The Comfort of Understanding: How Asking Questions Can Ease Grief
Nothing is more comforting than someone genuinely wanting to understand how you’re doing, especially in the context of grief. This understanding is crucial for several reasons: Empathy and Connection: Grief can feel like a daunting wall, isolating...







